Near death experience helped me with my belief in God and the universe. Getting married helped me understand what I want in a relationship with a woman and taught me about myself. But realizing that good and bad experiences from day to day makes me what I am today. It seems like I have more bad then good times, so I started looking at the bad as building blocks of life. They aren’t as bad as they look and I usually cause them so knowing that I am learning how to control the bad times. Some of the bad I can’t control but I try to control the ones I can. Sometimes what I do causes the bad so I try to weight the pros and cons of my decisions. The good times are just life to me how you look at it is how your perception of it is so if it’s not bad it’s good. Great times or rare and in time they turn into good or bad. So I believe good and bad experiences are the most influential to make you grow the most.